Fun New Things

What a great Super Bowl to watch this year! I really didn't have a team I preferred to win, but I must say, I am very happy for the New Orleans Saints. Way to go guys, and way to keep your class in the process too. We had a little get together with our neighbors and in unison, celebrated my stepson's 11th birthday. I don't know if you have any step children, but if you do, it is a labor of love. My stepson is a unique young lad that I have had the pleasure of knowing since he was 16 months old. When we was a pumpkin, we got along great. But, as things have changed, he has grown, new babies come along, his parents have their issues, I feel at a loss most ofthe time he is with us. We have shared parenting with primary custody. Basically, we have him from Sunday to Sunday every other week. The primary just keeps him legal in our school district. In our state, at the age of 12, you have a say in which parent you would rather live with, if the change is of interest. I wonder what he will do. They say kids love disipline, but I guess we'll see!

I have taken on a new 'hobby' and I use the term VERY loosely! My friend over at So Not Donna Reed, has hooked me up with a wonderful lady on YouTube and I can say, my crocheting is going pretty well. How stressful it was the first billion times I watched and tried to follow along, but when it snapped.......aahhhhh.....the  fun began. Here is the first project I have started. A scarf for my little man. 

As I said, it is a project I am still working on and it is FAR from perfect! But I am learning and having fun.

On the cooking front, I whipped up a Soy-Orange Pork Loin the other night, with vegetable rice and steamed veggies. Luckily the kiddos and their Dad loved it. I had a bit left over and made a gravy with the shredded pork leftovers and served it over some oriental rice and vermicelli tonight. Just to see how he would do, I chopped a small bowl up for my little man, 9 months old. HE LOVED IT! In fact, I steamed some carrots for him as well and he ate all those too! Looks like another foodie for me, ha ha. 

Well, I hope everyone takes the step to try something new this year. I am having so much fun learning things I never thought I would be able to accomplish. Is there anything you want to try?

Trigger Thoughts

So I volunteer at my girls' school and have involvement all the students from K-8. The other day, we were working on a PowerPoint show and one of the girls was writing about how she feels she is being bullied by three girls in her class. So, toward the end of class, I decided to let the kids look at each others shows, if they wanted to share. Low and behold, the 'bully' watched the show of the 'bullied' girl. It was interesting to see how hurt the 'bully' looked. Like she couldn't imagine anyone would ever think of her that way. (I will stop here to say, this was a situation of gossipy 9 y/o trash talk, NOT physical abuse or malicious intent) So as they lined up and we waited for dismissal, I asked her what she thought of being called a 'bully'. She shrugged her shoulders and said "Whatever". I told both the girls involved that when I was in school, I picked on a few select people and I was picked on by a few select people. But somewhere along the way, we all realize we are all in this together and no one is always right, always wrong, stupid, ugly or any other 'label' we put on people as we move through life. The funny thing was, they walked out together. I hope it helps, but I know when you are 9, you know it all and adults suck. So, I guess I won't hold my breath!

So, while I was thinking of these girls today, I had wonderful memories of fourth grade. For me, my fourth grade was spent in two schools, as we moved in the middle of the year. I remember having so much fun, playing with my friends and just being a kid. I don't really remember picking on others, but I am sure I did. I remember transitioning from boys are gross to maybe they aren't so bad. I remember riding my bike EVERYWHERE and everyone knew my name. We didn't worry about being abducted. Passing notes in class, check yes or no, list your favorite people in order from 1 - 5, playing Nintendo until 4 in the morning. Oh it was grand.

Things have changed (obviously) and I now have a fifth grader. He doesn't tell me anything about school. It is a place to go and 'get it over with'. My second grader however, I can see the drama coming a mile away. Maybe it is a girls/boys difference. I dunno yet. All I know, is I have been listening to Bon Jovi on my iPod and singing into my hairbrush, trying to fight the urge to dig out some blue eyeshadow and Aqua Net. Now where did I put those?

Kicking it into Full Gear....well...kinda...

So, the next round of sickies have come and are on their way out...I hope. I have not had this many illnesses in my house, ever. I am really wondering if it is because of the insulating we had done? Although it was not too dusty/messy, it still did stir up a lot of stuff and maybe years of 'illnesses' were included in our 'dust'. Anyway, I hope to do better blogging and keep up better.

I spent most of last week doing some detail cleaning after the guys finished our house. We also have a friend couple that just moved into their new house they just built and I took supper to them a few days, in hopes of making at least their evening a little less stressful. I also took a Taco Pie to a dear friend whom helps me with my little guy. He really is a mama's boy and she is severely underpaid by me, but I try to make it up to her! I really enjoy taking meals to friends. It gives me such a warm and toasty feeling. Oh, and we had a bake sale for my second grader last week too, so mini Valentine cupcakes were made as well. It was such a fun week.

I am making progress on the tank top I started and have hopes of finishing it this week. I must say, no matter how many patterns I use and things I sew, I find some of the instructions extremely difficult! It shouldn't be harder to read them than to actually SEW the item!

I flipped my calanders today to kick off the new month. My step son's birthday is this Sunday...SUPER BOWL SUNDAY!!  And as he turns 11, I finally (think) I found an awesome gift he will love. It is killing me to wait to give it to him, but we must be patient. He is having a rough few weeks at school lately and I hope this helps.

My second grader is attending a mini cheer camp this week and has the game this Friday to cheer at. Mama couldn't be more proud or excited. Ahh the memories of high school cheerleading. (sigh)

Well, a small basket of laundry is staring at me right now, so I guess I should tend to it. Wonder if all the socks will match tonight!?